Dating a 17yr old
Where I am, it's legal to have sex when you're 16 so that wouldn't be an issue but you are only classed as an adult when you're 18 so I'm old enough to go into clubs and bars and drink alcohol but he isn't.
Also, when going abroad he'd be classed as a child and I would be an adult.
Anyways is it so wrong to date someone in my category as long as no sex is involved?
I made it clear to her That I'm not having sex with her till shes 18 and so far shes agreed to it. if they are under 18 and you are over 18 I just see that as someone who desperately wants a relationship but can't get with someone of their own age.
I know theres people that have done it and lived a decent life, but I rather not inherit all the drama that may come with it like baby daddy issues and such.
Where I work at Costco, the median age range is 18-30, and I swear all but maybe 3 girls there are pregnant or have a kid, heck theres one girl who just turned 21 and has TWO kids! I'm not sure if I just live in a bad city or that "normal" for people my age.
In my opinion I'd rather be single than date someone who is either fresh out of high school or still in high school.
I don't have any, don't want any, don't want to be a step parent...which pretty much puts me single forever.I think if her parents allow it, then I don't think it's bad. Her parents loved me, but I ended up breaking it up after 9 months.She apparently was raped by a friend years before she met me, and was still suffering some major trauma.I would think at 22 having kids is the minority, not the majority.
I made it clear to her That I'm not having sex with her till shes 18 and so far shes agreed to it.
If it was a 19 year old and a 23 year old I think that's a little bit more realistic, but it's hard to say since I don't know you two.